Special Gifts
by Jack Henslee

Gifts are always a pleasure to receive. Some for the value and need, others for the thoughtfulness of the giver. They come in many shapes and sizes. Some are small and delicate. Others, large and seemingly rugged. Most are nicely wrapped and display wonderful colors of something exciting and enjoyable inside, while others may appear drab and hard to figure out. I have received many gifts in my life.

I have received some gifts numerous times. The gift of speech easily comes to mind, having lost it three times. The first time was just a fleeting passage of silence causing little or no concern, but the next two times are a collage of memories and experiences indelibly imprinted in my mind. Some gifts are cherished forever and increase in value over time.

In these past seven years I have received some other gifts that are very special to me because they have changed my life and given it purpose. These gifts often came out of fear, searching for hope and support, or, maybe just looking for answers. These gifts will always be remembered because they form a collection of promise, renewal and inspiration that can't be bought at any price. These gifts are you, the members of LWT and the other laryngectomees, spouses and friends that have given of themselves to help others. What gift could be more special than to hear someone speak again when they thought that silence might be forever? What could be more special than to see smiles and laughter where fear and confusion was once so evident? But most of all, what could ever replace the gift of seeing you courageous survivors reach out your hands to give hope and comfort to others.

These are gifts of love that can only come from the heart. They are gifts freely shared at each meeting and carried forward to the schools and hospitals when you make your visits. For some of you just your presence at the right time and the right place may have given someone else the encouragement they needed. You have all given something, some more than others, but none more special than just being there. During this season of giving take a moment to reflect on the gifts that you have received. Then resolve to give as much as you can in return.

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